Why Did My 'Ideal Partner' Leave Me? Part two of a two-part series.

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In element a single of this series, we examined: "Why am I NOT in a connection with the love of my lifestyle?"

In Part 2, we'll appear at why a seemingly "best partnership" falls apart and how to turn such a disappointment or pain into wonderful personal growth.

So, you produced your list of what you want in a guy (or gal) and you attracted THE One particular. You just know this is THE A single simply because they seem to fulfill every single desire on your list. WOW! You did not know you were so potent, did you? In truth, the realization of just how potent you are can make your head spin--your vibration soars! And "Oh, I just know this is the perfect individual," becomes your mantra. You begin to see each and every other often. You spend ftp site hosting lots of time discussing almost everything from your favorite color to foods and sharing lifestyle experiences. Exactly where has this person been? Why did it take us so lengthy to find each and every other? In your thoughts and imagination, you can see the two of you with each other forever.

And then, it could be weeks, or months later, you are NOT with each other and you wonder, "Did I do a thing wrong? Is the Universe playing tricks on me? I believed this was THE One. What occurred?" They located a person else. Or you discover some thing about them that triggered you to withdraw from them. Maybe you just drifted apart. One particular issue is correct, the disappointment of this relationship has released a tirade of self-depreciation and reinforced the old tapes--"It may possibly occur for other individuals, but it will not happen for me" and "I've missed my one chance at accurate adore!"

Let's look at 3 factors why a seemingly "perfect partnership" may not last forever:

Reason # 1

The Law of Attraction teaches us that we attract men and women, possibilities, situations and items that are in harmony with our dominant vibration. What takes place, occasionally, is that that individuals are harmonious for a while, and then one particular particular person tends to make a selection or modifications and sets themselves on a path that no longer harmonizes with our vibration.

Cause # 2

You did not comprehend that some issues in a connection are extremely crucial till the partnership ended. Do you remember the lady who wrote to me in part a chickencoops single of this series? She had not realized how crucial it is to attract a lover who has healed from past hurts. Although she is nonetheless in really like with this man, he could not stay in the connection, due to his worry that she would one particular day leave him as his former lover had. To protect himself, he ended the relationship with the writer. He simply was not prepared for a deep lasting partnership. Now, this lady has "healed and prepared to commit" at the best of her list!

Cause # 3

Your Larger Self is prepared for you to evolve into a more complete self-acceptance. That's right your Higher Self knows just how considerably you depend on other individuals for your self-esteem and ftp hosting sites so it sets the stage for a dramatic (and usually painful) situation.

This Higher Self is the Accurate You. The A single you have shied away from. The YOU you've avoided for so lengthy. Your Larger Self has a message for you and desires your interest. It will have your attention sooner or later. And the sooner, the simpler the lesson.

I have a client, who is nearly 60 years old, who is becoming confronted with this lesson and it is so painful to watch her struggle with it. The Very good NEWS is that our Higher Self only desires our highest great and that consists of:

Knowing oneself

ACCEPTING oneself

HONORING yourself

TRUSTING your self

LOVING oneself.

When we believe that we ARE magnificent, delicious, marvelously designed spirits possessing a human knowledge--that there is Nothing Wrong with us--that we ARE Full--that we do not need an additional human to make us complete--then we are prepared for the most delightful, deep, satisfying personal relationships. All our desires will manifest in a lot of meaningful and/or intimate relationships.

Ask oneself:

"Am I prepared to learn much more about myself so I can accept all parts of myself?"

"Am I willing to assign my own sense of worth or worth?"

"Do I really like and care for myself adequate to 'grieve and get over' the lost lover?"

"Can I use this chance to understand myself far better?"

If you ARE willing to develop and understand more about your self through a hard loss of a connection, probabilities are you will attract someone into your life whose vibration is in stunning harmony with yours.

Rebecca Hanson is a Master Law of Attraction Coach. Thousands of people have enjoyed her talks or articles about true-life experiences and how she found the "nugget of truth" in every single situation. Now she has such a deep grasp of how faith, beliefs and thinking perform that she is in a position to lift other individuals to a higher level, really swiftly. You can get in touch with Rebecca at Rebecca@YouCanHaveItAll.com or on her web site at http://www.youcanhaveitall.com and sign up for her free Museletter.

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