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One common complaint that we women have is that the man in our lives seems to love us less than we love him. It doesn't matter if it's a boyfriend, or a husband, there are times in almost all relationships where the woman begins to wonder what she can do to make him appreciate her more. If you want to know how to make him love you more, you have to start by looking at yourself not him.
Men love women in a very different way than women love men. Typically men don't express their feelings as openly and directly as women do. A woman will tell a man she loves him and expect to hear the same thing back. If he doesn't respond that way each time she utters those words, she'll begin to wonder what he's thinking and feeling. You may think your man doesn't love you nearly as deeply as you love him, but just bear in mind that even if he's not expressing it verbally as often, that's not a reflection of what he truly feels.
One misconception that some women have is that holding out on intimacy is one approach to take if you are trying to rekindle his passion. Men view intimacy as very connected to love. If they aren't being intimate with the woman in their life, there's a chance they won't feel as close to her. If you want to make him love you more, don't always refuse his advances. He'll feel rejected and that's the last thing either of you want.
Show him some respect. Both sexes, when involved in a relationship, often start to take their partner for granted. If you want to make him love you more, give him small tasks to do for you and then reward him by being very complimentary. Men love accomplishing things for the women in their lives, and if you ask him to do something specific, he'll typically be happy to do it. Also, listen to him when he talks, whether it's about some issue at work, or his favorite sports team. Everyone wants to feel valued and when you are listened to, you know the person finds you interesting.
Don't share all your feelings every moment of the day. As women, most of us are wired to be very open with what we're feeling. We want the man in our lives to be aware of what's going on with us, whether we're feeling angry, sad, disappointed, frustrated or overjoyed. If you tell the man in your life everything, he'll become less engaged. Instead keep some things to yourself. Make yourself a wee bit mysterious. Don't always be willing to talk, instead tell him you're thinking and you'd like to discuss things later. He'll respect you more if you share less all the time. That's not to say you shouldn't bring up an issue if it's tearing you apart emotionally inside, but it does mean, you need to be more mindful of what and when you share.
When it comes right down to it, the best way to make him love you more is by being yourself. If you try and change to please him, he's going to realize and it's going to turn him off. Be your own woman, keep your own interests and find your own passions. He'll love you for being an individual who knows exactly what she wants.
References:
how to make a man fall in love with you
