TomasinaEells754
出典: くみこみックス
Your main profile picture is the first impression that a woman checking out random profiles on an online dating site will get. It is the most important aspect of your profile. In fact if a woman does not like your picture she will just click the next profile without even reading the nickname that you took so much pains selecting or read your painstakingly put together profile Random ID.
Stop getting anxious. It is not the question of how handsome or plain you are or even how fat or slim. In this day and age even if you were George Clooney, you would have a problem getting a favourable response from the ladies if you made some common mistakes as listed below -
No all boys photo:
So you went out for a fishing trip with your pals and had a whale of a time and clicked some happy pictures. You look happy and so do your pals. If you upload one of those, you send a message "I am Man", or "I am very happy with my mates" and the woman is bound to wonder how much time you will give her. That is, if she manages to figure out which one of the guys is you, anyway.
No photo with other women:
It looks tacky. This is true even if the photo ID Card has you standing with your sister, sister-in-law or aunt. Women are not going to ask. They are just going to click the next profile. This holds true for pictures where you edited the woman out too - parts of the dress and even your stance shows that the picture was edited. Do yourself a favour and get a simple snap of you and upload it.
No disguises
You know what I mean. Those photographs of you wearing outsized glares and a cap, or a photo of you wearing a hooded jacket and goggles just won't do. They just send out a big message that you are just checking out the site, are not serious and are most probably in a relationship or are married and would waste the woman's time. They will not work.
Computer cam shots:
Avoid them. They look weird and you look very anxious. It is something to do with the Random angle of the shot and the entire process of clicking your own photo.
Pretentious professional photos:
They make you look like a star, are very attractive but ladies do not go for them. I have a feeling that they think you are too full of yourself and will not make a reliable partner for a long relationship.
The best photo for your profile shot should be a facial picture taken very recently, not older than three months. It should not be a distance photo or a profile photo or from some other angle. These other photos can be uploaded in a photo album later. The first and main photo for your profile, which will make a woman want to get in touch with you, should just be a facial picture.
