Three Actions to Attracting More Satisfying Relationships
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As lengthy as the Law of Attraction has only the 'DON'T want' script, it is restricted to orchestrating that script more than and over. We need to give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to perform with.
What do you really want in your relationships? Security? Affection? Loyalty? Companionship? Communication? What?
Do you wonder why you hold attracting certain varieties of individuals into your life?
Are you tired of feeling disappointed in 'love?
Have you ever been 'blind-sided' by a person you thought was a friend?
Do you feel desperate to locate that particular individual you can reside with forever?
Here are three steps that can support you in attracting more satisfying relationships:
Step 1: Make a thorough list of all the characteristics or scenarios of your past relationships that you Don't WANT to experience once again. You can use the T-toolTM for this exercise or just take a fresh sheet of paper and draw a big 'T' on it.
Label the left hand column: 'I Don't want' and the correct-hand column, 'I Do Want'.
Ask your Inner Self to remind you of past events that you do NOT want repeated.
Write a handful of words about each occasion that express the essence of that occasion.
Step two: Examine every item on the 'I Don't want ..." side and ask your self this question: "If I do not want this, what DO I want?"
One key purpose why we keep attracting the exact same unsatisfactory relationships is because we fail to use the contrast contained in those negative events to get clear about what we DO want.
Step three: Write a Script about how you DO want your relationships to be:
As long as the Law of Attraction has only the 'DON'T want' Script, it is restricted to orchestrating that Script over and over. We need to give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL more to work with.
Scripting accesses all four parts of the brain.
The left brain which offers with words and logic
The correct brain which understands patterns and symbols
The mid-brain which experiences emotions and
The brain stem which registers physical stimulation .
When we write a Script, starting with a phrase such as: "If I had my way...", and use our imagination about that which feels excellent to us, we are accessing our right and mid-brain. A thought or feeling comes and we translate it into words (employing the left brain) that symbolize the believed or feeling (right continue brain again). Writing the Script engages the body, which registers in the brain stem.
When all 4 parts of the brain are engaged, a effective find out more message is delivered to the Universe.
I like to end my Scripts with the phrase, "And do this in approaches that are for my highest excellent and the highest excellent of everyone involved." This is a phrase that helps me let go of 'HOW" this will all come about, and makes it possible for the Law of Attraction to bring it about in the extremely greatest attainable way.
Bear in mind, the Law of Attraction brings us precisely what we vibrate. So if we want to expertise relationships that are more satisfying, then we must change our dominant vibration to match the experiences we WANT to have.